“What can I do if my spouse won’t engage?”

January 25, 2015 | admin
One of the Worlds’ leading experts on marriage answers this common question.
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The Day Tony Became Wealthy

January 25, 2015 | admin
This short video is just packed with messages. I’ve already watched it a few times and plan to watch it more – it really hit home (for me) on how to live — I hope it does something for you! Please leave a comment below and pass along – thanks!
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Perfect Ignorance

November 2, 2014 | admin
I have yet to meet the child who thought they could not improve on their parent’s efforts. Of course that was before their kids became teenagers. Parenting is difficult because parents have what I call “Perfect Ignorance.” As opposed to perfect knowledge, which is attaining real certainty, parenting doesn’t afford such luxury. This is not […]
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Shocking revelations of a marriage counselor

November 2, 2014 | admin
After 20 plus years in marriage counselling I am going to tell you something absolutely shocking. I have never met an unhappy couple! That is, when they are compared with the average inmate in a North-Korean prison. Unfortunately, they (the couples) compare themselves to fictional Hollywood romance characters. And no matter how many times I […]
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Video Grit

October 11, 2014 | admin
Take a look at this video with your family, then discuss the questions below.   Quotes and Questions: Do you agree with this: “Life is about opportunities.” Given the choice: Would you go back into that body? What does Janine mean when she said: “This was everyone’s pain.” Do you think Janine enjoys life more […]
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September 1, 2014 | admin
Bad karma: we can’t find that page! You asked for {%sh404SEF_404_URL%}, but despite our computers looking very hard, we could not find it. What happened ? the link you clicked to arrive here has a typo in it or somehow we removed that page, or gave it another name or, quite unlikely for sure, maybe […]
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Boot Camp for Women

August 26, 2014 | admin boot camp guarantee.jpg
   READ WHAT A RECENT PARTICIPANT OF BOOT CAMP WROTE: “Boot-Camp really helped to save my relationship with my husband.  After seeking 3 therapists and no one helping, my marriage was really crumbling to pieces.  I felt determined to make it work if for no other reason, for the children. Boot-Camp has brought real joy […]
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Wanna be a Hero?

August 27, 2013 | admin hero.jpg
I find it amusing that people think Superman a hero when bullets just bounce off him? What bravery or courage does that require? I too would stand up to evil in a computer game, in fact, I think most people would. I would even end poverty, ignorance, and maybe bring peace between the Russians and the Chinese, if the United Nations asked for my advice. Similarly, ask anyone what the President should do on any given issue from invading a small country to raising the debt ceiling, and it's surprising how many people know what to do. As George Burns remarked, "How come all the people who know how to run the country are cutting hair and driving cabs." The New York Times always seems to boil down whatever crisis is going on in the world to a choice between two obvious alternatives. Not only that, but the NYT graciously makes it so clear even a potted plant could figure it out. Perforce, we have to ask, why is it so difficult for the people who do make these choices? When I first starting teaching marriage and parenting, I naively thought that the lack of such classes in the market place was no one had thought of it. 25 years later I have come to a different conclusion, it's hard to be a hero.
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3 simple ways to Think Like a Winner

May 16, 2013 | admin quote.jpg
“Life isn’t fair” is about as common a complaint as, “get used to it” is an answer. And both these bumper stickers are at the root to why people aren’t succeeding in life, love, business or anything for that matter. You might say, “But everyone has these feelings!” Which is not really accurate. It’s not everyone, it’s really 99% of everyone. There is a small group of people who have figured out that you can’t find success in life and be resentful – you have to choose. The mind works in such a way that to succeed in life, you must have a winning attitude. At best, you can have individual successes, and we all do. But to turn those successes into a consistent pattern called a great life, you have to have a winning attitude. Let me explain.
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Three Things You Never Knew About Affairs

May 2, 2013 | admin
Having an affair is akin to opening an airplane window halfway across the Atlantic, the results being almost identical. But whereas most people understand the concept of being sucked out of a pressurized chamber 30,000 feet up, they don’t understand why affairs happen. What you need to know will shock you. 
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